The 10 Commandments of co-parenting

In this article we show you 10 tips to resolve conflict after divorce co-parenting and achieve success.

Resolve conflicts without putting children at the center. This requires you to be objective about the needs of your children (and not confused with yours). If you continue with a conflict of divorce, do not let this problem punish the parent passive-aggressive manner and cause difficult situations. After the divorce is very important to keep the warmth.

Treat the other parent with respect. This is a long way toward easing relations with your former partner. It also provides a good model for your children after divorce. It is important for the healthy development of children to have respect for authority figures, including parents.

Observe the appropriate limits. When it comes to your children, sometimes it's hard to say what is right and what is bad. But if an activity is not harmful to them, probably not dangerous.

Communicate regularly with the other parent. There are many things to share after divorce. When children are small in divorce, the other parent needs to know the basics because parenting responsibilities are transferred.

Does the child has eaten? Have you recently gone to the bathroom? Does he or she needs more sleep or bathroom? When children are older, parents should be aware of school activities, sporting events and excursions outside the city. The worst case scenario is the lack of communication that can lead to children not picked up in the nursery or delay of medical treatment.

Demonstrate positive conflict resolution. Do not try to hide the conflicts that may arise after the divorce. Generally, children know more about what's going on what adults think. Use conflict as an opportunity to show children how to solve problems in a responsible manner.

Share your experiences with other parents who have gone through a divorce. We all have different requirements for support after divorce. Make sure you are clear with the other parent and have time to inform you. Divination is not very productive.

Be consistent in discipline, feeding and care of children. This facilitates the transition from home to home and minimize outbreaks of children after visits with the other parent.

Respect others and recognizes rearing methods are optimal consistency while.

Help your children recognize the other parent with gifts. These things express feelings of your children and make them feel good about themselves. This is very important after divorce. Take the time to help your children to do or choose Christmas gifts and birthday for the other parent. The recognition of Mother's Day or Father is particularly important because there is no family involved in the celebration.

Do not punish your in-laws to keep your children after divorce. Your laws are probably as disappointed as you and your former partner of the dissolution of marriage. In many cases, grandparents also support the child's attention, which is something any parent should voluntarily resign.